It’s been 16 years since my brother died. It’s hard to believe that 16 years have passed and that I’ve almost spent more life without him than with him. I wrote this story a few years ago, and The Mighty picked it up and published it last year. Here is an excerpt:
Sometimes, on a very rare occasion, my husband refers to me as a chucklehead. I’m always a little surprised when he does.
There was a time in my life when I was funny and lighthearted and perhaps even a chucklehead. But that was the Jen of years ago; the Jen back before my brother died.
I don’t want to admit that the sadness and heartache and grief have won, but if I’m honest, I realize in these moments that it has.
On December 11, 1981, my brother, Garrett, was born into the world, and for 20 years he filled it with laughter. To read on, join me here at The Mighty